“Ring, Ring…Hello?”


“Girl, have you been on FaceBook? Did you see what that girl wrote on his wall???”


“He friended how many girls in the last 30 minutes??? This is it…I’m calling him right now.”

<CLICK> You hang up the phone. As you begin to speed dial his number you wonder exactly what are you going to say to him? Luckily the blood pumping through your pounding temples & burning cheeks are making you feel no fear when he answers after the 1st ring.

“Hello…” he has no clue what he is in for. You almost feel sorry for him when you hear how sweet his voice sounds when he answers. That blend of excitement & puppy love in his voice are charming but nothing will erase the sound of your best girlfriend telling you & all your other girlfriends about what he just did to you on FaceBook!

“I can’t believe you friended all those girls today! Don’t you work or have a life…all you have to do is sit around & friend girls all day? Do you think it’s right for some girl to say she “can’t wait to have some alone time w/you,” right on your wall?

“Darling, those are my cousins & high school friends…it’s nothing everyone knows about you & me baby,” he can almost see a sliver of light. He just may make it through this if he plays his cards right.

“IF EVERYONE KNOWS ABOUT US…THEN WHY HAVEN”T YOU CHANGED YOUR FACEBOOK STATUS?”

John Doe hangs his head because he knew that he’d been beat. There was simply no way he could get himself out of this corner tonight without a whole lot of work.  She was NOT in the mood to listen to his excuse.

HELP US FINISH THIS STORY…life the NEW HIT SERIES Marriage Ref, YOU BE THE JUDGE.

Who’s side are you one?

1.) SHOULD John Doe have changed his FB status from SINGLE to IN A RELATIONSHIP?

2.) If so…when?

3.) Why does it matter?

*Giggles…this a problem many of my friends are going through RIGHT NOW! My point of view is that if people are together they are. A piece of paper, nor a FB status will prevent a man from cheating if he wants to. It’s the commitment & moral value that a man has deep in his heart that determine that. IF you trust the person you are with, you won’t have to worry about what a FB status may say. Your partners action & reaction to the world around him/her will prove where his/her interest lie.

HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF…DEMAND RESPECT…EARN RESPECT BY GIVING IT


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  • Basically, I agree with you. If someone is a low-life, what they do with their FB status is not going to make one bit of difference. To answer your questions:

    1. It depends how long they've been dating, and how serious it is. If it's a relationship, then he should change his status to "in a relationship" - but what defines a relationship does vary from person to person.

    2. As soon as he's in a relationship!!!!

    3. I've found from experience that it's always better to be completely up-front and honest with people. Some people don't like that, but that's the way I am. I have no time or patience for games. But who am I to dictate to others what they should do? Some people like "the dance."
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