Comments on: The JERK, 1979

By: Kimber

Kimber — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 14:10:18 +0000

Morning John,
So sorry my site was down for a lil bit! I goofed up something but I’m back now:D Hope you like new articles…
Talk soon,
Kimber

By: john35

john35 — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 00:15:04 +0000

Thank you so much!!! so happy now!! Kisses from your faithful reader

By: john35

john35 — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:15:04 +0000

Thank you so much!!! so happy now!! Kisses from your faithful reader

By: Kimber

Kimber — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 11:46:30 +0000

I am so glad things are going well for you! You deserve to be happy & removing “toxic people” from your life is the first step in your long journey to becoming the person you REALLY want to be.

Happiness is like a garden, it needs a good place to take root & an enviorment that allows it to grow. Weeds (toxic people/negativity) must be removed to prevent you from using all your energy to fight them off. The next step is planning. Set your goals, take the steps to achieve it & prepare yourself for harvest.

“Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it…” often holds true even when it is happiness. If you are not ready to accept that everything REALLY is OK, you may take the memory of this bad experience into the next one. Baggage: bringing your fears/doubts/suspicion into any new relationship is a self fulfilling prophesy.

Don’t be afraid to open your heart. Be honest as you begin your new life. Enjoy every minute of life, do what YOU love to do & you will meet people that are doing the same things. Only then will you find your true soul mate, best friend & love.

I am so proud of you for being strong. Change is hard but the longer you let a wound fester, the harder it is to cure.

Peace, Love, Out.
*Kisses Kimber

By: john35

john35 — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 22:44:43 +0000

Hello Kimber, thanks again for your recent advice. Now I finally left my girlfriend and feel myself released! Spending my time this afternoon by reading your new articles and they are so much you and that´s why I enjoy your site every time I feel lonely. To be honest I miss some stories about your fabulous family and friends. How are your private part, your friends and not least family and husband? Missing so much your stories and FLICKR photos about your wonderful family life, it makes me believe that there is a chance for me anyway to get the same in the future.

By: kimberanna

kimberanna — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 16:10:02 +0000

*Giggles

By: JaxJohn1

JaxJohn1 — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 22:33:33 +0000

: -) I have been through every emotion up there – from happiness, to sadness, to….Syracuse? No, that's a city! This is the best Cup O Soup ever — he ran the old Cup O Soup guy out of business!!

By: kimberanna

kimberanna — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 18:27:31 +0000

Cheaters are always cheaters. Once they cheat, they no longer respect you &
it is very difficult to have a relationship with someone who does not
respect you. I ended the relationships.

By: john35

john35 — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 18:00:14 +0000

Thank you for your advice Kimber, you seems to be a very kind person , as I´ve heard! How can such a nice woman like you been in similar situations??? Not to bother you more, but what did you did then? Left the jerks or tryed to work it out?? Anyway it looks that you finally have achived a perfect relationship! Congrads!

Thanks again
John

By: kimberanna

kimberanna — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 17:20:54 +0000

*Giggles...you should re-evaluate why she is still your girl, why do you
allow the relationship to continue when you know she is cheating and
especially why your self worth is so low that you accept this type of
behavior.
You must inspect what you expect. If you accept a certain type of behavior
then you are in fact giving approval for it to continue.
My "We are all human" comment just meant that of course we all have needs,
wants & desires. How we act upon them is what makes us differ from animals.
We have to ability to create a fantasy in our minds that we never intend to
act upon. Some people have "crushes" on a celebrity or they imagine things
they think their partner would never let them do. The key is to understand
that there is a difference between the two: fantasy/reality.
Ideally, you will need to communicate with your partner. Be 100% HONEST
with yourself & them. Be clear what it is you want from the relationship &
do not lower your standards just to keep them. In the long run you will not
be happy & you will lose all the time that you have invested. Most
importantly, RESPECT yourself. If someone cheats on you, they do not LOVE
you or themselves. SEX is just a bodily function if not given the importance
of commitment.
"Hope for the best, prepare for the worst..." I hope you take my advice as
it is intended. We each can only control our own situations, we can not
control our partners, friends or family members no matter how hard we try.
We must lead by example & have faith that others will follow where we lead.
Regardless, as long as you travel the course that you have plotted you will
reach your goal, one way or the other. PLEASE, put it all in God's hands. I
can feel your pain in your words & I admit I have been in exactly the same
place more times than I care to admit.
YOU DESERVE MORE. Realize that now & save yourself even more pain later
on.
Thank you for sharing so much with me:D
Kimber