Thank you so much!!! so happy now!! Kisses from your faithful reader

Hello Kimber, thanks again for your recent advice. Now I finally left my girlfriend and feel myself released! Spending my time this afternoon by reading your new articles and they are so much you and that´s why I enjoy your site every time I feel lonely. To be honest I miss some stories about your fabulous family and friends. How are your private part, your friends and not least family and husband? Missing so much your stories and FLICKR photos about your wonderful family life, it makes me believe that there is a chance for me anyway to get the same in the future.

The Jerk... one of my most favorite movies!
"BE SOMEBODY!"

You and your husband = morten, are the most faithful couple in the world.. let me know how you do you keep your man so faithful.. what is the secret?

Who knows who is ever faithful? No secret to it, just hope for the best...we
are all human. Love, respect & cherish ourselves & each other. >WINK<

I see your point, so if my girl obviously having an affair but denying it and telling that she loves me, I should hope for the best because we are all human???

*Giggles...you should re-evaluate why she is still your girl, why do you
allow the relationship to continue when you know she is cheating and
especially why your self worth is so low that you accept this type of
behavior.
You must inspect what you expect. If you accept a certain type of behavior
then you are in fact giving approval for it to continue.
My "We are all human" comment just meant that of course we all have needs,
wants & desires. How we act upon them is what makes us differ from animals.
We have to ability to create a fantasy in our minds that we never intend to
act upon. Some people have "crushes" on a celebrity or they imagine things
they think their partner would never let them do. The key is to understand
that there is a difference between the two: fantasy/reality.
Ideally, you will need to communicate with your partner. Be 100% HONEST
with yourself & them. Be clear what it is you want from the relationship &
do not lower your standards just to keep them. In the long run you will not
be happy & you will lose all the time that you have invested. Most
importantly, RESPECT yourself. If someone cheats on you, they do not LOVE
you or themselves. SEX is just a bodily function if not given the importance
of commitment.
"Hope for the best, prepare for the worst..." I hope you take my advice as
it is intended. We each can only control our own situations, we can not
control our partners, friends or family members no matter how hard we try.
We must lead by example & have faith that others will follow where we lead.
Regardless, as long as you travel the course that you have plotted you will
reach your goal, one way or the other. PLEASE, put it all in God's hands. I
can feel your pain in your words & I admit I have been in exactly the same
place more times than I care to admit.
YOU DESERVE MORE. Realize that now & save yourself even more pain later
on.
Thank you for sharing so much with me:D
Kimber

Thank you for your advice Kimber, you seems to be a very kind person , as I´ve heard! How can such a nice woman like you been in similar situations??? Not to bother you more, but what did you did then? Left the jerks or tryed to work it out?? Anyway it looks that you finally have achived a perfect relationship! Congrads!

Thanks again
John

Cheaters are always cheaters. Once they cheat, they no longer respect you &
it is very difficult to have a relationship with someone who does not
respect you. I ended the relationships.

LOL! Right, shhh, we don't want anyone twittering about thee Opt-grab! Remember how Dad and I use to chit chat about a red pool room. Oh my god - towels! No, not cat juggling! The new phone books here, the new phone books here!!

You are just too much! Great way to start a Friday: SMILING:D

: -) I have been through every emotion up there - from happiness, to sadness, to....Syracuse? No, that's a city! This is the best Cup O Soup ever -- he ran the old Cup O Soup guy out of business!!

*Giggles

The Jerk! CLASSIC! And that's all I need - the remote control and this paddle ball, and that's all I need.

*Giggles...I love that movie! I always think about the thermos..."I picked
out this thermos for you."
Glad there are others out there like me:D

: - ) Yes the thermos is classic! The Cup O' Soup and Navin as the weight guesser! : - ) I have watched that movie more times then I can count and probably know it from start to finish. Opti-grabbing it!!

*GIggles...shhhh don't tell people about the Opti-grab, they will be
twittering it up as a NEW product!
Do you remember how I always wanted my own Disco?